We are humans and we all have our weaknesses. So what’s the big deal? Well, it’s nothing, but one needs to overcome these obstacles for obtaining successes. If you don’t pay to heed to your weakness on time, then it could wreck your life and spoil a lot of time that’s crucial for you. Many a times, you might miss the opportunity that was created just for you.
Most of the time, people do not realize what’s hampering their effort and keep on treading forward. Then one fine day, they miss the train and start wailing. But what’s the use of crying over spilled milk? A lost opportunity might never come back. And if you still do not change yourself, you are going to be in the dungeons forever.
Let me illustrate with an example for you all. Ever looked at Charlie Sheen? Now this man had a lot of fame and money all these years. He delivered hit after hit after it. Look at the condition he is in now. This man drank, had sex with almost everybody he could lay his hand upon. What good did it do to him? If he had taken care of his weaknesses at the right time, his story would have been different than what it is now.
So how do you take care of your weaknesses? Here are three superb tricks that will help you get ahead of the pack and beat the doldrums.
Step 1: Know What Your Real Weakness Is
You should know the weakness first to work on it. Many of us do not even know our real vulnerability. That is because humans are programmed to take out faults of others in a better way. They have a tendency to ignore their faults. In case, you do not know what your weaknesses are, then pick up a person you trust the most and ask them to perform this exercise, just for your sake. After an open discussion with the person, identify the problem areas.
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Step 2: Understand The Final Outcome Of These Weaknesses
These weaknesses are eating away into your mental system and affecting you in the worst manner possible. There are so many possible effects of a single weakness. One should have an unbiased eye to take it in the right way. Is this problem affecting others negatively? Or are they harming your social life in some other way? This is when you take charge of your life and put forth an impression that you want to convey to others. Once you have started working in this direction, there is hundred percent chance of revival.
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Step 3: Change The Behaviour And Improve The Personality
Now that you have understood the problem areas and their outcomes, it is time to work on them and change the world around you. Your life will be a better place for survival and it will project a positive picture of you on others. Everybody’s impression about you shall change. All you have to do is put the self-knowledge you have acquired and put it to use. Work on improvising your behaviour. Remember not make this a challenge. Work slowly and control all the negative urges. This way you will reap rich benefits till the very end.
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So my dear readers, it’s time to play the game! Are all of you ready?