Dating your best friend sounds good if you imagine, but in reality it is something else. Now who is your best friend? Is he the one whom you fantasise about in your heart. Is he/she the cool one you have always pined for but never had the courage to tell him/her. In simpler words, one whom you are cordial with.
If you are thinking about “that” best friend, then you are mistaken, my friend. He/she is the one who will rock the party with you. You both will form a notorious gang that is dreaded throughout the varsity. Yes, I am referring to “this” best friend.
Still unclear? Let me explain with an example.
If you have seen Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, Shahrukh Khan Had Two Friends, Kajol and Rani Mukherji. Shah Rukh has a crush on Rani and Kajol loves him truly. I am referring to Kajol in this case. That my dear friends is the best friend I was talking about.
Now after all that lengthy explanation, I revert to the original question. Would you it feel like to date your best friend?
Expectation #1: Your Choices
You like the same stuff – music, games, sports or TV shoes
Nothing could be more farther from the truth
Expectation #2: Your comfort level
You maybe best friends. So you think wear you can go in your age old boxers in front of each other. Forget about showering, to hell with the make up and what not.
You will always feel the comfort in a good relationship. But you are missing out on all the fun. With your worst side on display, you are missing out on all the fun.
Expectation #3: When You Fight
One is always under the misconception that of you are dating your best friend, you won’t fight much. And if there is a fight, it won’t get nasty.
You both know each other so much that you can hit each other where it hurts the most. Don’t think you won’t fight. Fighting is natural for a relationship, otherwise the bond won’t grow stronger.