If you thought ending a relationship was the toughest part about love. consider the equally hard decision of giving it a second shot. What if the relationship does not end with breaking up ? What if you’re still having feelings for the or vice versa ?
Sometimes, the relationship may end up exactly like it did before, there is also a possibility of things changing for the better. So, if you’re considering getting back with your ex, you need to get some things straight beforehand.
1. Considering how the step makes you feel
The first things to consider before taking any further decision is to consider how you feel about getting back with your ex. When you think about getting back with them, how does it make you feel ? Excited ? Nervous ? Or maybe even scared.? Understanding your own reactions would help you understand whether getting in a relationship is worth it or just a waste of time.
2. Have you resolved past differences ?
If you two broke up, it’s likely that you faced some problems when you two were together, right ? Have you resolved those issue or left them as they were ? If the latter is true, you can be almost certain that the same issues would crop up again. Maybe not in the beginning, but definitely somewhere down the line.